Virginity...curse or blessing?

[issyme]

At what age should someone lose their virginity? In a sex-crazed culture, if you're a virgin, are you considered a freak? As someone who hasn't yet done the deed, I was wondering if I am cursed or blessed?

[Jo*mar]

There isn't any certain age and I wouldn't even worry about that.
When the time is right, and hopefully you meet a very special person, then you will know.
There are still a few people that wait until marriage or at least until they meet the right "one".

[snoozie]

I would say your blessed because you don't have to look back and realize that the person you were with wasn't necessarily the one for you. Alot of times (especially in our younger years) we think that the person we are with is the person I will be with for the rest of my life and I am in love with them. Well things change and so do you and you realize that he/she is not the one.

My neice is 27 and is still a virgin and I admire her for not settling and waiting till it feels right for her. No you are not a freak, in fact I think you are a very intelligent person to question this. Don't let society dictate what you do with your body. ...Sue

[billie]

Blessed. You will meet someone special, and at that point, you will be strongly appreciated for your virginity. billie:hug:

[seeker83]

You are definitely blessed and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. You'll find the right person and things will fall into place the way they should.

[Caramel Chanel]

I am still a virgin at 23 years old.Do I care what people think of my choice?I do not care cause I do not want people making fun of me and stuff.