Curious's {{HUG}} thread..please {{hug}} her here.

[CoolAngel26]

Curious,before I heat up some dinner,sweetie..

:hug: :grouphug: :hug: :grouphug: :hug: :grouphug: :hug:

Love,CoolAngel26

Oh,here's some {{choccy}} {{choccy}} for you too.:D :D

[Chemar]

I am adding my hug :hug: and lotsa prayers for my favorite yappy monkey

and one for the room too:grouphug:

[Wren]

Hugs, chocolate and prayers .... lots of prayers. :grouphug:

[Taffy]

OK.....

:hug:

and sliding her a chocolate bar from Taffy!

[Alffe]

What can I say after I say I love you. Big hugs...and more prayers. :hug:

[FeelinGoofy]

:hug: hugs and prayers headed down south!!!!..... :hug:

[bizi]

adding my hugs for dear curious.
((((((HUGS))))))
bizi:Heart:

[Shelley]

Sending my :hug: and prayers for my fave monkey :hug:

[Spanish Moss]

:hug: :hug: :hug:
http://www.xoxocandles.com/scent_pictures/Hershey's%20Chocolate.jpg

[befuddled2]

:hug: Curious :hug:

:hug: :hug: :hug:
:hug: Curious :hug:
:hug: :hug: :hug:

befuddled2

[Abasaki]

:hug: :hug: :hug: :grouphug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
((((((((((((((CURIOUS))))))))))))))


:hug: Abbie

[Doody]

(((Monkey Doody)))

http://home.mchsi.com/~njp/emoticons/love.gif http://home.mchsi.com/~njp/emoticons/sunflowers.gif http://home.mchsi.com/~njp/emoticons/BEARHUG.gif http://home.mchsi.com/~njp/emoticons/throb.gif

A cuddly blankey for you to relax and read a good book or watch a good movie. http://home.mchsi.com/~njp/emoticons/bed.gif

[KathyM]

(((Curious)))

Hang in there, girl - people love you :hug:

[~KELLWANTSANSWERS~]

:grouphug:
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[BJ]

:grouphug: Curious :grouphug:

[CoolAngel26]

:grouphug: :grouphug:

[Alffe]

((((Curious)))) thinking about you and wishing I could help. :hug:

[Shelley]

Sending more hugs :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

We love ya yappy monkey!

[mrsD]

What is happening here?

Sending positive vibes, in any event!

[CoolAngel26]

:hug: :grouphug: :hug: :grouphug:

[Wren]

:) :grouphug: :) More hugs and more HOPES
And many more prayers :)

[Chemar]

and another :hug: from me with lotsa prayers being lifted too http://bestsmileys.com/kissing2/2.gif

[Jo*mar]

I keep meaning to PM her but keep forgetting to do it:o
so I'll just post a hug :grouphug: :hug: and Thinking of You !

[shiney sue]

Here :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: sweet Monkey :grouphug: Sue

[Shelley]

Many Hugs and prayers to Curious :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

[shiney sue]

Thinking and:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
and more :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
prayers tooo :grouphug: :grouphug: Sue

[Addy]

:hug: sending good thoughts your way.

[Curious]

:grouphug: group butt squeeze

thank you all so very much for all the love and support.

i wish i could post the particulars of what is going on, but with members of the club also being members here, my idiot husband would have a fit. :rolleyes:

honestly, if they only knew the truth...they wouldn't be members.

i will say the kids and i are in the last few days in the house. where we will end up, i haven't a clue.

i made huge mistakes when we got grandmonkey. i listened to my family. they cared more about hurting my daughter, than what was best for me and grandmonkey. i still do not have legal custody and not a dime to pay for an attorney. i can't get a job, because no daycare will take him.

no work, no money, no insurance, no home.

i also made the mistake of putting this house in my name only. so hence...the idiot husband could care less that we got foreclosed on. oops..he proabaly doesn't want his members to know that. ya think? or the fact that in the texas heat we sit at home all day with no airconditioning while he sits in a nice cool health club until the sun goes down? nah...he probably doesn;t want me to mention that either.

what is realy sad, is that the people i thought were my friends, aren't since i don't live up to the standard of living they expect. all the people that for years and years i was there for 24/7. all the people that got free memberships and free personal training...because they were friends. all the people that came to our parties...ate our food...swam in our pool. *poof* gone when i really need the help.

oh well. i'm a survivor. some how, some way. me and the kids will be fine.

[KathyM]

((Curious)) :hug:

I'm so sorry to hear of the troubles you're facing. You're in my prayers. I wish I could do more to help. :(

[~scrabble]

(((Curious)))) :hug:

I'm so sorry to hear all that you are going through. I'm sending positive thoughts and prayers your way and I agree that you truly are a survivor and you and your kids will be fine.

(...... and what about all those towels you have to wash for the members?? :wink: )

[Curious]

barf...you had to remind me scrabble....lol

wel..the one good thing about washing the towels...it pays for a chunk of my electric bill...which is LOW.

but after we move out..they won't have anymore towels washed by me. :D

i am just having to get inthe right frame of mind. getting my fighting spirit up again. try and find as many resouces as i can. look up agancies that kind of thing. try and find a nice sweet tax attorney that will take payments or work pro bono to help with the total mess my husband has dumped on me. :mad:

it just hits hard with my neighbor close to dying. he is just like a grandpa to the kids. i just don't know if i will be able to help when we move. :(

[Doody]

(((Monkey doody))) Are you and husband still together???? Is this yet another husband we need to help kick to the curb????

Please keep us posted when you can!

[Curious]

zoom zoom zoom.

[Jo*mar]

Hummmppphh, some guys are just jerks !
oops did I say that out loud :o

[Alffe]

I hear ya Jo....I had to take my opinion to a pm. :mad:

doody get your boots on..there's work to be done!

[BJ]

I'm so so sorry all this is happening to you right now Curious.

:hug: :hug: :hug: Curious :hug: :hug: :hug:

[Chemar]

I hear ya Jo....I had to take my opinion to a pm. :mad:

doody get your boots on..there's work to be done!


If y'all need some help I am right here!!!............:mad:



:hug: :hug: :hug: Curious :hug: :hug: :hug:

you know how to reach me and that my home may be many miles away, but my welcome mat will always be out for you, lil monkey and grandmonkey.
:grouphug:

[Shelley]

Hmmmmmm (shelley rumages through closet for boots) which boots to wear.....ah yes the ones with the very spiky heels...

Ok I am ready for some curb kicking :D

Come to So Cal curious and you can all stay with me and hang at the beach.

:hug:

[Wren]

My computer has been at the repair shop (Oh, how I wish I had been at one too :p ) but I've still been thinking and praying about you, curious. :hug:

[Alffe]

There's a reason that frog kicks like he does! :grouphug:

[Curious]

yadda yadda

[Alffe]

ROFL....he is adorable, just like Dr. Phil. :D

[Abasaki]

OOOOOhhhhh Curious!!! He is ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you for sharing!!! I needed the smile!!!!!


BIG BIG HUGS:hug: :hug:
Abbie

[Addy]

In the scheme of things... you just gotta laugh, hey, dear curious...

hang in there sweetie...
xooxxoxo Addy :hug:

[Shelley]

OMG he is soooooooooooo cute! I was :ROTFLMAO:

[Wren]

Big smiles and big love to curious

[befuddled2]

:hug: Curious, I know this time is very difficult for you.

I'm thinking and hoping things turn out for the good.

befuddled2

[Doody]

LOLOL! OMG that is friggin hilarious! And he is SO beautiful!!!!!!! Thanks for sharing the photo.

Now...back to the other stuff.

So, are you still in your house?

I have something for your hubby. C'mere hubby...just a little bit closer. Okay, thanks. Here.... http://home.mchsi.com/~njp/emoticons/hammerhead.gif

Oh, heh, so sorry. Will this help? http://home.mchsi.com/~njp/emoticons/kick.gif

Oh wow! So sorry, don't know how my foot got up your ****!!! :D

Monkey Doody, just give me a jingle if you need me boots! http://home.mchsi.com/~njp/emoticons/phone.gif

[Lara]

I'd really love to be able to offer some on the spot practical help to you and yours Curious. It all sounds totally overwhelming. However, having said that, I have been in similar situation. Not the same of course, but you'll get through it in the end and once all the change has taken place and everything is settled it'll just seem like a really bad memory. I gather there are some really complex legal issues going on and I hope you're in a position to have some help sorting those out as quickly as possible. Easier said than done I know. I wish there was something that I could do to help in some way other than just sending a hug but unfortunately distance makes that impossible. Please keep us updated so we know where you are and how you are. I'm trying not to pry too much here on this open forum but am concerned that you have a place where you have moved or are going to move while the rest of it all gets sorted out.

thinking of you, curious. It'll work out in the end. It's the getting there that is so hard. HUGE :hug:

[CoolAngel26]

Is anyone surprised I started this thread???:grouphug:

[shiney sue]

So glad you did,i can't stand that this is happening to you courious.:(
wee monkey has the biggest most beautiful eyes,he's a delite and
so are you. :) But Hubby is a :eek: and a low down,ok i better stop :mad:
I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Let's get our heads together
:grouphug: ok any ideas brave people. Courious anyway you can turn
air off the jerk. Whoops there i go again, i better:hug: :hug: :hug:
until i calm down. :hug: and prayers Sue

[Dmom3005]

Curious

Not having a clue what state your in. So I don't know if there is anyway I can help. But wishing I could. But if your in Indiana, let me know.

Donna

[bizi]

just wanted to add to your hugs today....
((((HUGS))))
bizi:hug: :hug: :hug:

[clouds z]

curious i hope youre ok and you find a nice home

i dont know whats going on really

good luck

[artist]

Woah! I have no idea what forum this is going into, lol - but OMG Curious, beloved Curious .....what you're going through rings a BIG BELL with me, different circumstances but oh, so familiar. It's hell, I know, hell, hell, hell so....
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: so sorry I've missed this, but wanted you to know I LOVE YA!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[Spanish Moss]

More hugs.....

[shiney sue]

We are a strong bunch,just read the posts. And read them again
I'm in Mo. if you need me,i will be here. More :hug: :hug: :hug:
something about the picture of lit Monkey makes me feel better,
Corious's once again thank you for thinking of us. :grouphug: Sue

[hsiw]

Curious, just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you and so sorry you have to go through this now. You could always come here to Florida! :)

:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

[Curious]

yadda yadda

[Doody]

(((Monkey Doody)))

Is it possible to fight for custody of the little guy? I so empathise and understand. My best friend fought for custody of her granddaughter, which is a long story. It was after her n'er-do-well daughter gave her baby to a non-English speaking couple in a park and said she'd be right back. She ended up being arrested in a bar for causing a huge disturbance.

The daughter for years and years whined and pi$$ed and moaned that all of her problems were because my friend took custody of the baby. Yeah, right.

She went through Social Services to do it. I would think that you could go to them and show that the mother is unfit. Or maybe you've done that.

So, she is going to come and get him? WHATEVER! The child will be so confused. My friend's daughter, now in her late 30s, seems to finally be coming around so she gets to spend time with her daughter. But her daughter is still very leery of her.

I really think a group of us need to come down there and kick your husband's ****.

I wish there were something all of us could do for you.

[Alffe]

Check your pm's again dearheart. :hug:

[Jo*mar]

ahh crap!

I hope you tell "her" that if any thing that seems to be unsafe or neglectful in grandmonkeys care it will be reported to child services.:mad:

I hope he can understand all of this a little bit before it happens.....:(

[Curious]

yadda yadda

[Jo*mar]

Keep praying and hoping -I'm sending some to you too.

[Curious]

:hug:

thanks jo.

[Lara]

:(

Like Doody said... I wish there was something all of us could do for you as well.


:grouphug:

[clouds z]

curious ill keep praying this situation is resolved for all concerned

its all because you lost your business? or house?

[Curious]

:hug: hiya clouds, thanks.

the house. business is still there.

hehehe..lara keep those butt squeezes coming. :p

[Chemar]

i so appriciate all the support. i wish you knew how many times i have thought if packing up my little car and just taking a road trip. :p be a gypsy.

your ever lovng broken hearted monkey.

dear precious monkey:hug:

if you have to take that road trip you know I am here to be a part of your journey.
I know there are so many others here and from the many friends you have made during your travels in cyberspace who would have the welcome mat out for you along your journey :)

we love you and my prayers are continuously lifted for you.

:grouphug:
Cheri

[Alffe]

Count me in! You wouldn't like the winters here but that's a long way away.
Sending you love, positive thoughts, and of course :grouphug:

[CoolAngel26]

Okay,i've been more of a lurker due to being tired after work lately..but,today I didn't work a straight,so I'm a little lucid.;)

Curious,sweetie..here is the cyber banana bread that hasn't been touched..

And some :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

[Curious]

i got my nanner bread from our resident angel...now who wants to plot my course? i get awesome gas milage. :D

zoom zoom zoom.

[Alffe]

Oh lordy...the last time I used map quest I got so hopelessly turned around that Mr.Alffe had to rescue me...street by street...Somebody else better show the way. And a dear friend of ours always said, "if you don't know where you're going, any road will take you there..... :D

[clouds z]

they are taking your kid?

[Doody]

we srewed up when she abandoned him doody. we only had so much time to call cps and report her. i was dumb and listened to my family. they all kept saying she would do the right thing. she would do what she said she was going to.

DUMB? Oh no you're not. She's your daughter. In my best friend's case, her family advised her AGAINST trying to get custody and to let her granddaughter go into foster care!

now if i get cps involved, they will take him. what they told me was that it means i am not able to care for him. byt taking him for as long as we have...we assumed all financial responsiblity. that includes paying for any custody battles. it is considered a civil matter.

we have no money. nadda..nothing.

what i was told by cps yesterday was if she screws up after taking him...them we have a chance to get him..and cps doing our battle for us. what expense? grandmonkeys mental or physical health?

*Sigh. Social services, what are you gonna do. Sometimes they're good, often times they're not. :(

If she screws up again, run (don't walk) to cps, and fight for him. If she's bad, that will be the expense to grandmonkey's mental and physical health.

Another big sigh. Oh how I wish I was as wealthy as, oh I don't know...Bill Gates? I'd have all my friends where they wanted to be including you.

:hug:

[Chemar]

Another big sigh. Oh how I wish I was as wealthy as, oh I don't know...Bill Gates? I'd have all my friends where they wanted to be including you.

:hug:

oh Doody you expressed that soooo well :hug:

just stopping by here again to leave another :grouphug: for ya Curious and to tell you that you are not only one special monkey but you are also one really gracious and giving gal! May the blessing you have been to so many over and over, come flowing back to you in multiples.

i am praying for the turnaround and breakthrough you need.
(((((((((Curious)))))))))))

:Heart:

[Abasaki]

:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:
:grouphug: (((Curious))):grouphug:
:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:


Just wanted to let Curious know that she's surrounded by lot of hugs and love!!!!

:circlelove:
Abbie

[dorrie]

:grouphug: More HUGS for Curious:grouphug:

[shiney sue]

Never say no,i have you in my hugs and courious in my prayers,this to
shell pass and your arms will be full again and so will be our hearrts.
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: Sue

[Curious]

1531

not much time to post...will give a full update later...but your love hugs and prayers have worked!!! we found a place that will be ready on july 15th.

[Alffe]

I'm so happy to hear this!!! Big hugs and continued prayers. :hug:

[Addy]

whhoooo hooooo!

:Dancing-Chilli:

for every action there is a reaction....

and everything happens for a reason...

....and I know there isn't a saying we don't all know but I wanted to say:
It takes a TON of COURAGE and STRENGTH to go through what you're experiencing!
A lot of us know that cuz we've lived it in one way or another. We're here to support you! So, we chant, over and over:

"I WILL survive!" :circlelove:

I think that what makes this so difficult for anyone is the fact that you don't know what is going to happen next. You've never walked this path before and it scares you. It makes you mad because you feel you've lost control.

I learned to keep pulling on that inner strength that keeps reminding me, I've made it through and over many experiences in my life. I've learned to trust myself and my decisions.
I haven't gotten "over" all of my experiences but I've survived. That's why I'm here.

That's why you are here.

hmmmm... I have a wonder and shall start a new thread along that line.

:hug: Addy

[Wren]

How very wonderful .... for someone who deserves their prayers answered !!!
Praise God

[Doody]

:hug: :hug: :hug: (((Monkey Doody))) I'm so happy to hear this.

[CoolAngel26]

:cool:..That's great..

Still praying for you and your family... :grouphug: :hug: :grouphug:

[Curious]

we get the keys and do a walk thru on july 13th.

last weekend we had a big estate/moving sale. so we really won't have much to move. pretty much just the bedroom stuff and some book shelves. lots of boxes.

pool table sold first thing. what a sight watching them move it down stairs. :eek:

we will move as much as we can in the cars friday and get a truck on saturday.

now...just a few more days of no cooking. lots of salads and sadnwiches. we sold the oven, cooktop and microwave. they were mother's day gifts a few years ago. i will give ya some advice...don't try and make oatmeal in a crock pot. :p

:grouphug: boy i wish there was something else i could say, besides thank you.y'all have kept me gong at my darkest moments.

curious...da monkey who has a new cage!!

[FeelinGoofy]

{{{HUGS}}}}} and alot of prayers still going out from here too Curious!!
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

[BJ]

:hug: :hug: :hug: And more coming my way Curious :hug: :hug:

[Lara]

.da monkey who has a new cage!!

Curious! That is super news. I'm so sorry that you've lost some of your special presents and treasures. I sure know what that's like, but I have to tell you that those items are not as important as it is for you all to be settled again. There was a time in my life when I owned just about everything I needed but it didn't make for happiness. Some of the best times have been since I was forced to downsize. The weird thing is that I actually prefer to live without a lot of things now. I'm much happier. This is one of those new beginnings and I'm so happy to read your post this morning. :hug:

[Doody]

(((Curious))) That's great news. I'm glad things are looking up. You be sure and take good care of yourself in the meantime. All this you've been going through is right up there on the stress scale! :hug:

[bizi]

So happy for you my dear....
wonderful news!
(((((HUGS))))
bizi:grouphug:

[Chemar]

:hug: praying for the rain to let up for your move Curious, and that the new cage is going to be filled with peace and joy and mega blessings for you and family.....:circlelove:

[Lara]

Hey,
I found something to celebrate with and to give you energy for the jobs ahead. lol Well, we can pretend.

http://i156.photobucket.com/albums/t32/KBurra/chocolates2.jpg

[dorrie]

Big Hugs from me:hug: to you!

[Wren]

Hugs, love and prayers

[clouds z]

we get the keys and do a walk thru on july 13th.

last weekend we had a big estate/moving sale. so we really won't have much to move. pretty much just the bedroom stuff and some book shelves. lots of boxes.

pool table sold first thing. what a sight watching them move it down stairs. :eek:

we will move as much as we can in the cars friday and get a truck on saturday.

now...just a few more days of no cooking. lots of salads and sadnwiches. we sold the oven, cooktop and microwave. they were mother's day gifts a few years ago. i will give ya some advice...don't try and make oatmeal in a crock pot. :p

:grouphug: boy i wish there was something else i could say, besides thank you.y'all have kept me gong at my darkest moments.

curious...da monkey who has a new cage!!

congratulations

sounds like a huge soap opera -where can i read in a post why all this happened?

[Lara]

I hope it's all going smoothly there for you, Curious.
Just thinking about you.

[CoolAngel26]

:grouphug: :grouphug: for our monkey lady...

Take care,sweetie.Thinking of you.;) Kristin

[Chemar]

just updating that I spoke to our monkey pal today and she is safe in her new cage, albeit exhausted after a very traumatic move and one not without glitches that were supposed to have been taken care of.....
she is also still without internet........
and a mega achy back from lugging lotsa stuff up steep stairs.........

but


she is still da monkey yapping lotsa love to everyone:grouphug: and she will be back on the board asap

more :hug: for Curious

[Alffe]

Thank you for the update Cheri. Send her our love if you talk again. :hug: