Feeling Very Hurt/No One Care

[DaisyMae]

Hi, I'm feeling so very alone these days, feel like no one cares. You see I had major surgery awhile ago, while I have some friends you have cared you have called have sent meals, and I'm thankful for them, but my family is another story. The first week that I was home from the hospital my mom said to me that she won't call me until I call her, and then I have a mother-in-law you hasn't even called me once to see how I'm doing, not a single phone call nothing. That's the thanks I get for ever trying to be nice to her to go out of my way for her etc.......She doesn't care, even tho I've been married for 19 years, I know that she will never accept the fact that I took her son away from her. Not a one family member has come to help me out, or to just come to visit, nothing, if it weren't for my husband and children I'd be all alone.
Today I'm feeling so down about all of the family stuff, I don't know what to do, please keep me in your prayers that they some day come around for me, I've had so many numerous surgeries and it's always been like this, I guess the saying is true that goes like this "you can't pick your family, but you can choose your friends". Why are families like this?, I ask myself this so many times, and I can never find a reason.

DaisyMaey

[Curious]

awww daisymae...we care.

the funny thing about family and friends...friends just love you for you. famliy...well we are kinda stuck with them ya know? now i'm not saying they are stuck with you..not at all, but not everyone has a kind heart like you.

some in famlies are the takers. they never figure out the giving part. my in-laws...not a giver in the bunch. i don't let it change me. i have learned the hard way that they are who they are.

yes sweety, you are in my prayers. welcome to bt2 and sss. lots of new friends. :D

((((((hugs))))))
Curious

[CoolAngel26]

Adding to Curious's comments,here..

Please keep posting here..we are all here to support each other,and we do care.You are a valuable member of this community.:)

[Chemar]

adding another (((hug))) for you, DaisyMae

we really care about each other here, and we would be honored to have you be a part of that :)

[cybil_who]

we really care daisymae (((hugs)))

[KTM5665]

yep, we sure do, Daisy Mae.

and if its any consilation to ya...my family takes the cake for allsorts of not such neat bragging rights. Im leavin town for the holidays this year!:cool: :D

Hope ya start feelin the love!

[DaisyMae]

Thanks Everyone, you are all so very kind, I'll be around for sure, you all seem so very nice.

DaisyMae

[Julie]

Big hugs!!!

[snoozie]

Hi Daisy, we are all just a mouse click away. Come here any time and I am sure you will find somebody here to talk to you, you have many friends here...Sue

[norwegian]

Being with you on the road, Daisy Mae
If your family doesnt want to be part of your network, you build one without them.
We are part of it!
megahugs
Per, Norway

[Chemar]

good morning DaisyMae

I hope today will be a good one for you :)

[DaisyMae]

Well today was a better day, I had a visit from a dear friend and that helped alot. At least I have all of you, and some dear friends that are more caring and helpful then my family.

DaisyMae

[Chemar]

so glad your caring friend came to see you DaisyMae
good friends are real treasures, arent they!

(((DaisyMae))):)

[snoozie]

Hi Daisy, I was wondering about you today so I am glad you stopped by. Sometimes our friends don't understand our lot in life but I know it helps so much for them to not forget about us. My wish is for more days of happiness for you...Sue

[JoJo6]

The same from here DsisyMae, I care about you too. It is hard to have surgery, but it does make things worse when you have no support from family.

I don't know why. but most families are what you described. Try to ignore them, if possible. Remember your friends here in SSS

I see several new people that I haven't met yet. Welcome to BT2, also to you DaisyMae.

We love you, dear. Don't forget that, ok? take care and come often. There are some of the best in this SSS:) . Take care, Jo

[cybil_who]

i am happy u had a better day yesterday daisymae i hope your days be come better and better each day :)

[Idealist]

I care, Daisy Mae...I really, reallly do!!!

[norwegian]

aturday has started here, Mae, and I hope it will bring you a surprise gift of friendship.
Per, Norway