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kimmydawn
10-10-2006, 08:59 PM
...in your meditations, thoughts and prayers.
Many of you know that my little man (picture below) came to live with me two years ago. He will be four the 18th of this month.
His mother and father both are the walking emotionally injured. Because of that, they both self-medicate which exacerbates their illnesses. They went from bad to worse again and his mother in now is the hospital. They've both lived with so much pain and injury. My brother is often suicidal and has attempted (once he was actually brought back to us) a few times.
I knew they were escalating, and I didn't send the little man this past Friday to see them. They usually spend 4-5 hours once every week or two with him.
Please keep a healing (in several forms) for them both in your meditations, thoughts, and prayers.
My little man is happy and healthy. However, he still loves his mama and daddy and needs them, even to a small degree, in his little world.
Thank you so much,
KD
Curious
10-10-2006, 09:07 PM
((((kimmy))))
sending up prayers. i know what you are going through. i'm here for you anytime.
that little man has his angel on earth.
ps...have to add...what a cute little man too!!!
CoolAngel26
10-10-2006, 09:23 PM
(((kimmy))))...
Hugs to you,and your family.Your little guy is cute.:) You can PM me anytime you need to talk.
Chemar
10-10-2006, 10:08 PM
(((kimmy)))
the lil man and his mama and papa.....and you kd... will be lifted in my prayers
he is sooooo blessed to have you to love and care for him thru these tender years.
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Ellie
10-10-2006, 10:48 PM
He is precious and it takes someone with a heart like yours to do what you are doing to keep him happy and well.
I wish only the best for both you and your family.
*Hugs*
Julie
10-10-2006, 10:56 PM
Sending prayers up in your name along with David's too. Biggest of hugs to all of you!
snoozie
10-10-2006, 11:07 PM
Kimmie, special prayers will be said for you and your little man. You are a very special person to be there for him. Oh and what a cutie! Thinking of you, Sue
Wittesea
10-10-2006, 11:26 PM
(((((((((((hugs))))))))))))
Sending lots of positive thoughts.....
jccgf
10-10-2006, 11:51 PM
Kd, you and your family are in my prayers.
I've seen miracles happen in my own family just when we thought there was no more hope, so keep the faith and hope alive. A medical crisis sometimes presents a window of opportunity for new treatment that would otherwise not occur. I hope she pulls through whatever is happening, and that it may lead to a positive change.
Little man is so lucky to have you, and I know you feel lucky to have him.
Cara
cybil_who
10-11-2006, 06:45 AM
i will pray for your family :(
monarchbutterfly
10-11-2006, 08:34 AM
(((hugs)))
KD, he's beautiful- you've made such an incredible difference in his life by being there for him. I'll keep you all in my thoughts. I'd give you my shoulder to cry on if I was there in person.
mb
kimmydawn
10-11-2006, 09:08 AM
Thank you everyone. I'm not partial or anything, but I think he's the cutest, brightest, most perfect little man to walk the earth. ;)
Miracles began for him (and us) before he was even born...long story...but he's absolutely a blessing.
Thank you so much for the thoughts and prayers. They're so appreciated.
I talked with his father last night and they're both in the frame of mind to make some changes and accept help. I hope they continue. He said the nurse at the hospital told the little man's mother to pat herself on the back for coming this far (considering), but she needs some help now.
It's very encouraging that she checked herself in and stayed through the night!
KD
jccgf
10-11-2006, 09:56 AM
This is so promising!
We used to actually look forward to the "medical crisis" because it always gave us "one more opportunity...one more reason for hope". My mom (vodka was her medicine) had so many hospitalizations, three of them life threatening. She's had periods of sobriety lasting from months to years over the course of her life. The last two crisis's were ten years between...last time 1 1/2 years ago... liver cancer, to boot, met with another miracle.
We've had several miracles over the last twenty years, too. The biggest miracle of all, for us, is that my mother has finally found peace in her heart, and so has our entire family.
I don't know the details of your circumstance, but I feel very connected on this one. My heartfelt prayers are with you.
Cara
JoJo6
10-11-2006, 10:46 AM
prayers for you're little family, KD. You are special to do this, but I can feel the love in your words. I also pray for the mom&dad.
Little Man is beautiful! I think it is alright to call a male beautiful, don't you? You take care and give the sweetie a hug from old auntie Jo;)
JoJo6
10-11-2006, 10:52 AM
This is so promising!
We used to actually look forward to the "medical crisis" because it always gave us "one more opportunity...one more reason for hope". My mom (vodka was her medicine) had so many hospitalizations, three of them life threatening. She's had periods of sobriety lasting from months to years over the course of her life. The last two crisis's were ten years between...last time 1 1/2 years ago... liver cancer, to boot, met with another miracle.
We've had several miracles over the last twenty years, too. The biggest miracle of all, for us, is that my mother has finally found peace in her heart, and so has our entire family.
I don't know the details of your circumstance, but I feel very connected on this one. My heartfelt prayers are with you.
Cara
Cara, I'm happy for you and your family. It sounds like a long battle, but one battle that has been won. Please take care of you , that is most important right now. Blessings to all your family, Julia
jccgf
10-11-2006, 12:06 PM
Thank you, Julia. It is still always one day at a time, but today things are good.
Blessings to your family, too. I know you are struggling through very difficult times.
Cara
Jo*mar
10-11-2006, 12:11 PM
I'm hoping they both find the best help they can get, to eventually bring their family back together in safety.
Alffe
10-12-2006, 05:40 AM
He is darling KimmyDawn.....so glad he has you two watching over him. Am sending you positive thoughts and of course prayers. Hugs
kimmydawn
10-12-2006, 01:18 PM
I can't thank everyone enough for the thoughts and prayers. Keep them coming because they're working!!!
Thank you as well for the kind words about my little man. Yes, he is BEAUTIFUL...inside and out. He's the most sensitive loving little man. He's a miracle every day. It's a miracle he was born, in fact. His mother had had one procedure and was actually on the table for the second (which would have ended the pregnancy) when an "on her toes" doctor noticed her large uterus. She was four months pregnant. As per guidelines, they had not done one pregnancy test because she was deemed not to be able to have children. So many blessings even before his birth!
Children that age live by routine and I've tried to keep his right on schedule due to the differences in his little world. He knows he didn't see mama and daddy this past Friday. He NEVER cries for them and has cried every day since the trouble began (even before I was aware). He knows something isn't right; in fact, something is wrong.
I called his daddy and he's coming over this evening and bringing his big sister. He's going to leave his big sister here while he goes and visits mama in the hosp. YAYAYAY for little man. He LOVES his sissy. She'll stay and have dinner with us.
His mama is staying in! She's began meds and they've initially dx'ed her with PTSD and complicated post partum(sp?) depression. They feel there may be personality disorders there as well due to her HORRIBLE childhood.
She said the meds are helping her to feel calmer and slowing down the thoughts.
Thank you so much everyone.
KD
Snoopy
10-12-2006, 02:16 PM
Kimmydawn, I will keep you and yours in my thoughts and prayers.
What a wonderful thing you have done taking in your Little Man. He is such a handsome young man.
I wish his mother all the best in her battle with PTSD, it can literally be a nightmare. Been there, wouldn't wish PTSD on my worst enemy.
Take care.
cybil_who
10-12-2006, 03:29 PM
the prayers will keep coming kimmydawn
kimmydawn
10-12-2006, 04:39 PM
Thanks Cybil_who. :)
Thanks Snoopy. Yes, my entire family lives with PTSD due to childhood, so me and my brother (her b/f) can really be an ear. I've been telling her for years that she needs to deal. Running is too hard and we can only do it so long. Thank you for understanding, though I'm sorry you do.
KD
DaisyMae
10-27-2006, 04:41 PM
I'll keep you family in my thoughts and prayers, your little man is very lucky to have you.
DaisyMae
JoJo6
11-27-2006, 09:45 AM
prayer for KD and family:)
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