View Full Version : Just need to share-a death of a beautiful young woman
sassy
01-25-2008, 09:27 AM
My sister's niece passed away last night. She was 19 years old and had a very severe case of Marfan's. She wasn't expected to live when first born so she has been a miracle all her life in more ways than 1.
She had at least 2 open heart surgeries to make room in her tiny chest to make room for heart and numerous other procedures, surgeries and hospital stays.
Her mother passed away 2 years ago from ALS after living longer than what was ever expected also.
Last night Nicole was taken to the hospital having problems breathing, she refused any treatment...she'd had enough in her young life and was ready to rest.
I truly believe she and her mom have been reunited. May we all live life as bravely and with such fullness as these two beautiful women did in their short lives.
God Bless you Nicole, Melinda and your families!
tkrik
01-25-2008, 09:34 AM
Sassy, I am so sorry to hear about this. I will pray for you and your family.
susieq
01-25-2008, 09:36 AM
It's so hard when they go young. But she's at peace now, and I also believe she's been reunited with her Mother. And they're both in a better place.
momXseven
01-25-2008, 09:41 AM
I'm so sorry, I'm sending some prayers for your family.
MamaMonkey
01-25-2008, 09:44 AM
Bless her heart. I am so sorry to hear this. I'm sure she is now at peace and definitely reunited with her Mom. Peace and strength to those of you she left behind :hug:
barb02
01-25-2008, 09:54 AM
I just want also say I am very sorry and hope that she is at peace now. :hug:
AfterMyNap
01-25-2008, 09:57 AM
God Bless you Nicole, Melinda and your families! Amen. :(
soxmom
01-25-2008, 09:58 AM
Oh Sassy what a brave young woman:(. Wishing you and your
family peace at this time.
Thinking of you,
Sox
Bearygood
01-25-2008, 10:25 AM
sassy, I am SO SO sorry. Sincere condolences to you and your family. :hug:
MSCherokee
01-25-2008, 10:34 AM
Aw Sassy. :hug: I too believe that she's been reunited with her mom. My condolences.
kicker
01-25-2008, 10:38 AM
So sad to hear this, but she got rest finally and I do believe she and her mother are together again.
Kitty
01-25-2008, 10:40 AM
Sassy, I am so sorry - it's so hard to lose those we love. These women sound like such brave souls. I have no doubt they are reunited at this very moment and have no more pain. :hug:
suzyqz_2007
01-25-2008, 10:54 AM
I am so sorry Sassy. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
sassy
01-25-2008, 10:56 AM
Thank you all and Amen to no more pain!
She was such an inspiration to her entire family. It makes it hard to complain about little things when her and her mom faced such a difficult life with such bravery, compassion and a smile on their faces.
I remember the last time I saw both of them alive was at my dad's funeral, Mindy in a wheelchair at the age of 38 and Mindy at the young age of 11 pushing her mom with smiles and hugs for all of us.
God Bless
That is how I want to remember them. Happy in spite of all they had been through.
Riverwild
01-25-2008, 11:01 AM
Thank you all and Amen to no more pain!
She was such an inspiration to her entire family. It makes it hard to complain about little things when her and her mom faced such a difficult life with such bravery, compassion and a smile on their faces.
I remember the last time I saw both of them alive was at my dad's funeral, Mindy in a wheelchair at the age of 38 and Mindy at the young age of 11 pushing her mom with smiles and hugs for all of us.
God Bless
That is how I want to remember them. Happy in spite of all they had been through.
No words, just hugs for you, Sassy :hug:
greenjeans
01-25-2008, 11:14 AM
:Sorry: :hug:
greta
01-25-2008, 11:24 AM
Sassy-
I'm so sorry. So unfair that one family has to endure so much. My best to you and the rest of the family.
SandyC
01-25-2008, 11:28 AM
Awww Sassy, your right. She is with her mother now and without pain. God bless you and your family.
turtle_78
01-25-2008, 12:02 PM
My thought and prayers are with your family
MooseasaurusRex
01-25-2008, 01:23 PM
((((Sassy and her family))))):hug::grouphug:
Bannet
01-25-2008, 01:26 PM
((((Sassy)))) I am so sorry to hear about your sister's niece. It just doesn't seem fair sometimes, does it?
My prayers have been said.:hug:
joellelee2000
01-25-2008, 01:48 PM
Oh Sassy!
My prayers are with you and all of your family. I believe, too, that they are together now, at peace. :hug::hug:
Chris
01-25-2008, 03:25 PM
Oh Sassy!
I just got chill bumps reading this! How utterly sad!:o My thoughts and prayers are with you, and your sister's family right now. God bless all of you! What a blessing that you had this little girl in your life for so long. I'm sure she was a very special young lady.
All the best always,
Chris
the Bird
01-25-2008, 05:41 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss, Sassy. You made a beautiful tribute to Nicole and to your sister.
Jappy
01-25-2008, 06:07 PM
Thank you all and Amen to no more pain!
She was such an inspiration to her entire family. It makes it hard to complain about little things when her and her mom faced such a difficult life with such bravery, compassion and a smile on their faces.
I remember the last time I saw both of them alive was at my dad's funeral, Mindy in a wheelchair at the age of 38 and Mindy at the young age of 11 pushing her mom with smiles and hugs for all of us.
God Bless
That is how I want to remember them. Happy in spite of all they had been through.
Sassy my heart and prays go out to you and your family.
You know that they are together. Happy and no more pain.
May God give you the strength and peace to go on and remember the
happy times.
Joyce ( Jappy ) :hug::hug:
snoodles
01-25-2008, 07:11 PM
I'm so very sorry...
Snoodles
GladysD
01-25-2008, 07:20 PM
Sassy-
My deepest condolences to you and your family. Sounds like you are doing well in the grief process with your positive outlook. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.
thav1
01-25-2008, 07:22 PM
You have my sincerest sympathies.
Koala77
01-25-2008, 07:35 PM
I am so sorry Sassy. My thoughts are with you and your family. :grouphug:
sassy
01-25-2008, 10:46 PM
Thanks everyone for your kind words and thoughts.
ckepi
01-25-2008, 10:55 PM
God Bless your family Sassy and may they rest in each other's arms now.
Taffy
01-25-2008, 10:57 PM
Thoughts and prayers at this time.
Twinkletoes
01-25-2008, 11:36 PM
How very touching. Condolences and hugs to you. :hug: They are together again and free from pain! Thanks for sharing.
Vonn07
01-25-2008, 11:56 PM
God bless you and your family, Sassy ... my prayers go out to you! (HUGS)
duvabw
01-26-2008, 01:24 AM
Sending prayers and hugs to you and your family.
:hug:
mommywms
01-26-2008, 01:34 AM
im so sorry to hear this sassy.
god bless your whole family in this time of need.
alyson
FinLady
01-26-2008, 10:44 AM
Sassy, sending prayers for you and your family. What a strong young woman to have gone through so much.
:hug:
AfterMyNap
01-26-2008, 11:43 PM
Are you holding up okay, Bren?:hug:
BaxterTheBunny
01-27-2008, 12:32 AM
Sassy, so much grief for one family.
Sending prayers for peace to you and your family. :hug:
sassy
01-27-2008, 12:03 PM
Thanks again all!
And AMN, I'm doing ok. It is hard on my niece, she was really close to her cousin. Hard to explain to a 15 year old why someone just wanted to be peaceful and not in pain.
Haven't decided if we are going to the funeral. I told my mom if she wanted to go we would make the trip up north (Cadillac).
Hi Bren~~ Sorry I am late seeing this. I am saddened at all this brave young woman has had to endure, but she IS w/her Mother now and in her loving Mom's arms... Thinking of you and the family.
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