Hi bizi
I did find out alot about the part of my family who abandoned me. There is a toxic person, and my innocent special education daughter who does not have the mental skills to understand the reasons behind actions, that had to take place regarding a trust from my mother. She has been twisted, and cannot make the mental connections, so her brother and me were blamed for something I had no control over. I did all the right things and so did her brother. We acted morally, and correctly. Her husband, because he thought I short changed her somehow, took this innocent adult and my grandchild away from me for these past 9 years. I am abandoned by them, though I did all the right things. Her anger is misplaced, and firmly belongs to her husband, who used her to get family money. This is the core of the situation. This on top of my medical issues. It is the reason why I am so emotional, and at times a basket case, as I have many issues going on at one time to deal with. I am grateful to be able to tell the situation to those here who understand how money can destroy a family. Would I be on medicare/medicaid or food stamps, if I kept funds? No I lost all because I got sick. They want more, more money, stuff, possessions, things that have no value. I sold things to get my medications when they were 1,000 a month and no insurance. They want stuff? Stuff? When my life is on the line? Daughter was twisted to think these things are important. she got what was due her. It did not satisfy her and her husband. What a truth to tell, what a tale of family sorrow. I know on this site Bizi, that there are people with a BIG and good soul. That is why I stay here. Forever grateful for a place of comfort and understanding. Thank you Bizi, ginnie
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