Good grief. You've really had a rough time. I'm so sorry. I think it STINKS that your wife ditched you during this time.
That's a pretty rotten thing to do.
You can get your MRI report at the hospital where you had it done. Just ask for it (are you in the U.S.?) It actually belongs to YOU. You have to sign a release, but they'll give it to you -- again, if you're in the U.S. You don't have to wait until you see the doctor.
Again, you've been thru the mill. I hope someone will listen to you SOON. The care you're getting is unacceptable! I'd keep calling, til I got someone to do something about it! Don't give up! Make a pest of yourself if you have to. You need to see the urologist! By the way, you don't need a "neurologist." You need a NeuroSURGEON. There is a difference. So make sure you get the right one, ok??
Hope to hear from you soon when you get your MRI report. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee