thinking about you. haven't posted mch because not sure what to say. No. actually the problem is i have too much to say and not sure how it would all come out.
so for starters let me remind you of the most important things.
i care about you.
i am your friend.
i am reading/listening.
You sound like you have been getting things done. i believe as more things are put to bed you really will feel better.
i must congratulate you on moving the art table. that is a compromise and i also feel for you on that. i actually feel this conflict of equipment and soundspace very deeply on both sides, as i am simultaneously in both your pairs of shoes in regard to "noise." i do believe you two can work it out. please listen to each other's needs and also make sure that each of you expresses your separate needs. i think if you do this, then together you can figure out a comfortable solution.
and here i open the can of worms. i am going to run my mouth hopefully i can stop, in reply to your emphasis early on about what Jeff does. Clearly teaching guitar is what Jeff does
. However his music in general seems like much more than a hobby, it seems to describe part or much of who he is
. In this case, playing guitar would be his main means of expression - but not the sum total of it. I only know Jeff "by proxy" in a most limited way, so if I'm wrong ignore me, heck, even blast me one if you feel like it!
But if i'm right, the keyboard seems to go with the territory - he may even have wanted one for a long time.
Now! Hopefully i did not open Pandora's Box. Back to shutting my trap, which is generally is better kept shut these days. I never know what is going to come out or how much of it once it starts.
I hope today is going well for you and that your emotional skies soon return to a happy hue of bright blue.
Sending lots of
s which I invite you to deliver physically upon your person, and liberally so, whenever you feel like you could use one... or five!
~ waves ~