Great advise, thanks to everyone. My husband is telling me the same thing, "don't leave".
I will never understand why doctors tolorate behavior like that. As I said others have complained and from what I here one of them went to the CEO of the whole facility and where talking about one of best orthopedic facilities in the world.
He is technically great, I have epidurals for my back that last a year plus, if I need a cortisone shot, I have a shoulder issue also, he'll do it just right there and then not make another appt, blah, blah. I do hate to leave he's accomodating, smart, very smart but you have to get to him. What I have started to do is just ask to speak to him when I have a question and he has been calling. I only did it twice but normally I would just ask her and then she would get back to me, but I refuse to even look at her. I hate to feel that I have to demand to speak to him just because you can't trust her. It's not fair to him or me.
Thanks again everyone,