The Loss of my husband 11/2/11

Mikes Wife · 11-17-2011, 04:50 PM

Has anyone in this group loss a husband due to him getting killed. I am a 30yr old women who loss her husband due to some punks killing him on the job. We have 4 kids 11yr boy, 7yr girl, 4yr boy, and 2yr girl. I am trying to deal with it the best way that I can but would like to talk to someone who has been through this before. PLEASE HELP

Alffe · 11-18-2011, 02:45 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss...sudden, unexpected losses are the hardest to deal with.

These forums are a great place to come for support.

ginnie · 11-18-2011, 02:54 PM

I am so very sorry for your loss. There are no words that will take away what has happened. That kind of loss, is the most difficult to have. I wish there was a way to ease your heart. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that you will come here to neruo talk, and share your grief. We will listen and try to help you. I hope God extends his healing to your heart. ginnie

Kitty · 11-18-2011, 03:29 PM

I lost my husband ten years ago. It was totally unexpected. It's such a shock. The rug's been pulled out from underneath you and it's going to take some time to get past the feelings of being scared, mad, confused and scared again.

Keep coming here. There are others who have gone through similar things who can offer support and encouragement. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

ginnie · 11-19-2011, 12:38 PM

Dear mikes wife, I know the holiday will be hard on you. Know that there will be people praying for you. I hope you are surrounded by love and support from the rest of your family. We are an extended family at neuro talk in many ways. we won't forget about you. ginnie

Koala77 · 11-19-2011, 02:43 PM

I am so sorry for your loss.

dd in pain · 11-20-2011, 12:05 AM

I am sorry for your loss .

Jaycojade · 11-22-2011, 10:45 PM

Mikes wife;
I am really sorry for your loss & my prayers are with you & your family. I wish I could say something more that would help you thur this.
God bless you & your family.

ginnie · 11-23-2011, 09:33 AM

I will not forget you in my prayers. I wish there was something I could say or do to ease your heart. Your holidays I know will be difficult. We all care about you, and wish for you peace in your heart. You are not alone, we are here for you anytime you need to talk. ginnie

dyas62 · 01-09-2013, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Alffe

I'm so sorry for your loss...sudden, unexpected losses are the hardest to deal with.

These forums are a great place to come for support.

i too have had a sudden lost.
my dad died when i was 16- he had leukemia-he died the week he was too come home cancer free so that kind of loss is worse than(in my opinion)thna having a long term illness where you have time to grieve.

sue