Hello All from Ginnie good news!

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Oh Ginnie!

How awful about your son doing that! It is incredible.
I guess after peeling myself off the floor and putting my lower jaw back up into place, i have to wonder if your son fully appreciates the consequences of his actions... lik Bizi i wondered if he was so young that he thinks problems he can't solve will just go away if he ignores them. I hate to think he is just outright irresponsible. Could it have been an oversight - he got caught up in his own taxes and plain forgot?

Well, i guess i would talk to him and see what it's all about for starters - and whether he can make those payments with the penalties... perhaps giving you the paperwork to seal and mail, so that you can be sure.

do you still have any power over the house / over who is trustee or is that all his now? i was wondering if there was anyone else you could turn to for help with these things, but i don't know if you can remove your son from the trustee position. i do not have a good grasp of the legal situation - and it doesn't sound at all simple.

I'm sorry for your GERD and Barrett's Esophagus sx acting up. Do please be careful what you eat these days to try to reduce acidity - and if you are not taking anything for it right now, might want to ask your doctor for something to decrease the acidity - a proton pump inhibitor or whatever the latest invention is...

Wishing you a good day today. sending lots of (((huggggs))) and soothing vibes.

~ waves ~

[mymorgy]

Ginnie
i didn't file my taxes for over seven years once and wound up getting an advocate from the tax department. he was so nice and kind and patient. he had a brother who was disabled. i was terrified and still have a mail phobia because of my late filings. I wonder if you can ask for a tax advocate and see if they can help you and possibly give you some alternatives you don't know exist. I am so sorry you are going through all of this. IT IS WAY TOO MUCH.
i don't think your son did this on purpose because ultimately he would be hurting himself too. i am giving you a cyber hug
bobby

[ginnie]

Hi waves, My son has been depressed for over a year. he took off work too for this and got behind on house and bills. I am treating him with kindness not anger. He had the money for this taxes but used it to his own benefit. He gave me a lame excuse. He is 37, ex navy man, truely a good person at heart. I don't know why he lied. I only know I would rather loose my home than him. I made him trustee as medicare/medicaid didn't want my name on any document. I litterlly turned the only ramaining value left, which is this home in the trust to him. He was strong and vowed responsibility at the time. I never expected him to go into this state of depression as he never did it before in his life. I have my hands and plate full as you know, and I am desperately holding on and trying to control my anger. My son means more to me than any one act he could do wrong. It is all the things combined, that is hurting me. I can't cope with all the different issues going on, that is the source of why I am having such trouble. What my mind has been thinking on is rightous anger. I feel like the time that Jesus turned over all the tables at the temple, scattering all things. I have the appt. this afternoon with a new pain specialist and I am afraid I might just bust out and cry, which I don't want to do. Bad way to meet a new doctor. I am so glad i have all of you to help. I feel all of you and the comfort you bring to me. I will try to be brave, and trust this new doc. ginnie

[ginnie]

I will call the tax dept. In this area, there is no help for disabled with the taxes. Only if your are paralized do they give any kind of break. I will try to get to the tax office as soon as I can to discuss this issue with them. Sean makes a good wage, it just got behine I guess on all his bills due to depression. He happened to come unglued, at the same time I am going through the issues I am. I am hanging on to all of you. so blessed to have you in my corner. ginnie

[ginnie]

I am on a double proton pump inhibitor. being watched for cancer closely. This has already ruined the lining to my esophagus and stomach. I am in touch with this doctor, and he may have to do more for this than he currently is. I go to PCP tomorrow to discuss all of it too, including my emotional state. this PCP is Fab. the best, and I trust him. He got me in his office in just three days. he knows that when I call, I am doing so with reason. he will help of that I have no doubt. Have everything written out for todays appt. and tomorrows appt. xxxxxxxxxxto all ginnie

[bizi]

good luck with your appointments, will be thinking of you.
((((HUGS)))
bizi

[mymorgy]

don't worry about crying....re tax help...it is a special division of the irs and it is not local. they help you over the phone.
bobby
http://www.irs.gov/advocate/article/...212313,00.html i don't know if this is it

[Dmom3005]

Sending you hugs and good thoughts.

Donna

[ginnie]

You all must have been with me. He was able to settle me down quite a bit. Talked to me a good long time, and helped me not to be so angry. I told him what bothered me is that my regular pain doc. didn't want to treat for the surgical pain, and that it looks bad with your pharmacy, and with medicare/medicaid when you switch doctors back and forth. Don't want to be flagged as a problem, or a person who goes to different docs and shops around. I have known my pharmacist for years, and I want it to stay that way. all and all I feel more confident that I will be treated well for this surgery. Got my records now too, and the names of the proceedures to be done. I will start my research tomorrow or Friday. PCP tomorrow.
thank you all for helping me deal with the oceans of emotions I have at times. They just bubble up when I am frightened and in pain. Maybe bi polar is indeed part of my persona. I did not feel alone. Got my wheelchair and my walker ordered, all the ducks are getting in line. Love you all. ginnie

[ginnie]

thanks for tax information, I wrote the address down and will go to that site, and if that isn't the right one, I will find it. I though about going to the local tax office tomorrow and see if anyone can help. Sean took off too much work I think, and that is what happened. He got too far behind in his own bills, so could not help me. I so much want to move bobby. Get out of this location, and go to a place that has less taxes and is not dangerous. coastal is nice but so dangerous with hurricanes. I have been wanting out of here because of the taxes and insurance for a long time. I will work on it! thanks bobby. ginnie